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Published : March 16, 2009 | Author : momofsix
Category : F. Baby And Child Care | Total Views : 197 | Rating :

  
momofsix
I am a homeschool mom with six children.
My five year old boy had been asking for a pet fish for his birthday. I had thought, "oh, no, not again". You see we have had three fish die. Finally, the Pet Smart store pointed out that it was our water softening system that was making the water unsuitable for the fish, killing them. However, I just have never been able to keep fish alive. Well, this time we went to Pet Smart instead of Walmart (we got smarter-he,he). Petsmart asked  to test the ph of the water in the new and clean aquarium before we put any fish in it. They then helped us find a certain type of fish. You can choose from "community fish", "semiaggressive fish", or "aggressive fish". They also pointed out that gold fish should never be mixed with other fish because they put out too much ammonia; they are a very dirty fish. Goldfish are easy to care for, they said, but they must all be by themselves so that the other fish won't die from the toxicity of the goldfish. The young girl from Petsmart showed us that Goldfish must have their own filters and aquarium in the store because their output of ammonia kills off the other fish (did you know that?). So, the young girl pointed out that we need to also not put a Tiger fish that is semiaggressive with another fish like a Molly which is a community fish. The tiger (semiaggressive) fish will bully and hurt the other (community) fish. She said that the Tiger fish goes fine with the Silver Dollar fish or another semiaggressive fish, but not with a community fish. She said to watch the other fish. Some just have personalities of their own and don't do well (watch for bullying or such). She also advised us that some fish are more territorial than other fish (even within community fish) so we need to watch for how many fish we put together. It is the rule to add one inch to the adult growth of a fish plus and inch to the tank in estimating how many fish you should have in your tank. This young girl gave me enough information that I really feel more confident that this will be a positive experience for my Joshua, newly turned six year old.

Now something new was discovered after putting the tank and fish on his dresser two days ago (besides the fact that we need to secure the dresser to the wall more so no accidents will happen). The boys in that room slept with no one getting out of bed.  I was told that watching fish actually lowers one's blood pressure, which is why they put them in doctor offices. I guess with children, it helps them to relax to go to sleep. The boys seem more relaxed and  quiet at night. No one complains that they can't fall asleep any more. They watch the fish while they fall asleep. If I had known this I would have had a fish tank in there years ago (he,he). Has anyone else discovered this?

So, my recommendation is easy to care for community fish in an aquarium with a filter, a sucker fish, and an aquarium frog, for young children, in which there is a happy environment for the fish, and almost no cleaning for mom.

P.S. Some other bedtime tips that can sometimes help:
*calcium powder in Applesauce before bedtime (my favorite is by Nutriplex-super absorbable)
*quiet time reading (especially Bible stories)
*routine such as: bath time,  wind down activity (coloring), Bible story, calcium w/ apple sauce (keep it predictable)


P.S.S. Additional notes on aquariums:
1. New aquariums need to be filled with water and a special drops to protect fish for one week before putting fish in tank. This is so that the healthy bacteria grows, which feeds on the fish waste.
2. Putting a temperature gauge on tank is important to monitor temperature. New heaters need to be submerged in tank for one week before being turned on; water filter, aerator needs be in water to give enough oxygen ( add live plants from fish store to help keep fish calm).
3. Fish die when they are too stressed from too many fish in a tank, wrong temperature, ph balance or nitrates off (get ph and ammonia chemical strips to test water), add salt to keep fish from getting too stressed (especially for salt water fish).
4. After a couple of weeks or a month get an algae eater.
5. Stress enzyme is great for a new tank to help it get balanced water. Ammonia crystals help to get ammonia out of water (put it next to the filter as directions say).

Bad water in an aquarium is like bad soil for growing plants. There is a lot of science in this for a homeschooler-explain that too much acid in soil makes for sick plants, too much acid in people makes for sick people (stretch unit study and go into what food cause our bodies to become acidic or alkaline), too much acid in the tank causes sick fish..... By the way, it still keeps the boys happier when they go to bed. Many weeks later, and they still don't have a problem falling asleep because they watch the fish from their beds. It has been worth the work.



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Posted by MamaMahnken on March 17, 2009
Ooo, I have wanted a tank for quite some time, but now I am gettting newly motivated! Thanks for sharing all this great info!

Posted by Fulltime Mama on March 17, 2009
interesting! makes me want to consider getting a tank again - for their room this time.... :)



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